mercoledì 30 dicembre 2009

El problema de las mujeres es que ellas no son mujeres

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Women's problem is that they are not women

Abigail Pereira Aranha
Being a woman absolutely is not what we see in women around. It can not be and is not, so much that I am a woman and I am completely different of those types.
Some women take account of the lives of others, but being a woman is not it.
Some women are implicants and annoying, but being a woman is not it.
Some women do not have something worthy to talk, but being a woman is not it.
Some women pretend they are smart, but being a woman is not it.
Some women have contempt for man, and even envy of man, but being a woman is not it.
Some women love men who make them suffer, but being a woman is not it.
Some women use the intelligence to harm others, but being a woman is not it.
Some women use cunning to get along in the back of the neighbor, but being a woman is not it.
Some women are emotionally fragile, but being a woman is not it.
Some women are monsters of insensitivity, but being a woman is not it.
Some women are manipulative, but being a woman is not it.
Some women like to criticize all the time, but being a woman is not it.
Some women are sensitive and hysterical, but being a woman is not it.
Some women spend mercilessly the husband's money, but being a woman is not it.
Some women are cranky because they are frustrated and sexually dissatisfied, but being a woman is not it.
Some women feel entitled to be rude and unfriendly just because they are young and attractive, but being a woman is not it.
Some women are frustrated because they are neither young nor attractive, but being a woman is not it.
Some women need to have their faces and bodies desired by men and envied by women to feel good, but being a woman is not it.
Many women turn up their noses when the issue is sex, but being a woman is not it.
Many women can not have sex without holding the kitten to a compromise, but being a woman is not it.
Some women only have sex for interests, but being a woman is not it.
What we see more on female universe are bitches and asexual women who did not have beauty, courage and humility even to be sluts. They are poor in spirit and intelligence who think that having a pussy makes unnecessary to them to have qualities, intelligence and maturity. Be a true woman is having intelligence, character, maturity, humility, sexual freedom and everything else that deserves admiration in a person. We have lack of true women.
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domenica 20 dicembre 2009

Campaign Make Kindness To A Man

Eso texto en español (sin fotos e peliculas de putaría, en lo Paraíso Tangible en Wordpress): Campaña Haz Amabilidad A Un Hombre, http://avezdoshomens2.wordpress.com/2009/12/20/campana-haz-amabilidad-a-un-hombre/
This text in English (without sex pics and movies, at Paraíso Concreto): Campaign Make Kindness To A Man, http://avezdoshomens2.wordpress.com/2009/12/20/campaign-make-kindness-to-man.html
Texto original em português (sem fotos e vídeos de putaria, no A Vez dos Homens que Prestam): Campanha Faça Gentileza Para Um Homem, http://avezdoshomens.blogspot.com/2009/12/campanha-faca-gentileza-para-um-homem.html

Abigail Pereira Aranha

There are who will find that doing kindness to a man is queer thing. But it's just this the problem. The macho and the gentleman only know how to flatter a woman, sometimes just because she is young and beautiful.

If a man is on the bus carrying volumes and you are sitting, be ready to hold them or offer him your seat.

If a man is driving carrying with difficulty, offer to help you. A man has no obligation to be a bull.

If you have a vehicle, offer a ride to a known man. For unknown men in the road, be careful, but if you think dangerous to ride man, that woman in short sexy clothes hitchhiking can be burglar bait (or be a robber).

If you are a woman and are at night, take a cute boy to dance, and if it's worth, pays his ticket or something to him and give him a pretty fuck later.

If you are a woman, invite a cute boy to the movies or to watch a video in your home. If the movie is porn, he'll be happy, hehehehe.

Let's make kindnesses for men, because many hot women do not deserve them.

Campaña Haz Amabilidad A Un Hombre

Eso texto en español (sin fotos e peliculas de putaría, en lo Paraíso Tangible en Wordpress): Campaña Haz Amabilidad A Un Hombre, http://avezdoshomens2.wordpress.com/2009/12/20/campana-haz-amabilidad-a-un-hombre/
This text in English (without sex pics and movies, at Paraíso Concreto): Campaign Make Kindness To A Man, http://avezdoshomens2.wordpress.com/2009/12/20/campaign-make-kindness-to-man.html
Texto original em português (sem fotos e vídeos de putaria, no A Vez dos Homens que Prestam): Campanha Faça Gentileza Para Um Homem, http://avezdoshomens.blogspot.com/2009/12/campanha-faca-gentileza-para-um-homem.html

Abigail Pereira Aranha

Hay hombres que creen que hacer algo amable a un hombre es cosa de gay. Pero es precisamente este el problema. El machista y el hombre cortés sólo saben cómo halagar a una mujer, a veces sólo porque ella es joven y hermosa.

Si un hombre está en el autobús transportando volúmenes y usted está sentado, ofrecete a segurarlos o le ofrece su asiento.

Si un hombre está llevando volúmenes con dificultad, le ofrece ayuda. Un hombre no tiene obligación de ser un toro.

Si usted tiene un vehículo, ofrece un paseo a un hombre conocido. Por hombres desconocidos en la rodovía, tenga cuidado, pero si usted piensa peligroso conducir a un hombre, la mujer sexy en ropa corta puede ser anzuelo de ladrón (o ser una ladrona).

Si usted es una mujer y está en la noche, tome un chico lindo para bailar, y si vale la pena, paga su boleto o algo para él y dale una buena cogida más tarde.

Si usted es una mujer, invita a un chico lindo al cine o para ver un video en su casa. Si la película es porno, él va a quedar feliz, jejejeje.

Vamos a hacer amabilidades a los hombres, debido a que muchas mujeres calientes no lo merecen.

mercoledì 29 luglio 2009

What if a sister or daughter of yours was in a porn magazine?

Abigail Pereira Aranha
I like pornography (that normal, of course), I defend sex without stable relationship (not the casual sex) and I advocate open marriage. But what if in a pornographic magazine, photo or video was a daughter or sister of mine? Or what if I found out her work, which she said was another, was as a prostitute or stripper? Or what if she herself told me that would make a pornographic material or would work with her body? Before giving my answer, I'll make some considerations. And I will pretend that I am a lady of about 40 years old (I have only 18) and never lived in bitching.
Some men like to flirt and "improper for minors" materials, but they believe that their families' girls are different. This is called arrogance. Many people find themselves with more rights than the rest of humanity. This is the case of man who is "hunter", who finds himself worthy of having sex with every attractive women he can find, or of seeing their bodies whenever he can. Each time he achieve it, is a trophy for him. And this same "hunter" of the daughters and sisters of others is "protector" of his. So, when the daughter or sister has sex with her boyfriend... the thing is reversed. This case is different, the girl is of his family, she is for marriage. Any talk of her with a man brings the fear that the female of the house of the "hunter" is someone's hunting. We also have a different view of our parents, our brothers and our sons, we do not always see them as individuals with an individuality, like the rest of humankind.
Some men like porn, but divide women in women who have value and women that have no value, this value an amount against her sex life, and they hope that the one in their family are in the first group. This is contradictory. If all women were liberals, these men would protest because of lack of morals and good customs. If all women were puritanical, and their husbands "macho", they hardly would see or would talk with a woman who was not of their family or their wives. And this "macho" is the "protector" of their daughters and sisters.
And there are men who link the relationship between man and woman to a stable relationship and do not like pornography. This is called Puritanism. This is not exactly respecting women and discipline of sexual desire, which is good and I also have (I'm talking seriously). This is sexual repression, even when it not reaches neurosis. These have a concept of the sex that is highly negative. Did not say the Apostle Paul that "would be good if a man did not touch a woman" (I Corinthians 7. 1)? If sex is admitted within marriage, it is only because the purity of the marriage institution exceeds, or comes close to exceed, the filth of sexual practice and desire.
Let's assume that demonstrate liking sex or a disinhibition related to the body is the greatest moral stain on a woman. Women who appear in pornography are in majority "ordinary" women of day-to-day. You see: they are not nymphomaniacs pretending to be "decent" women, but women like the neighbor or the clerk. Many make these materials only one time and because of the money that is paid. To cite an example, Rita Cadillac made some porn videos for money, but seems to have not greatly enjoyed the experience.1
Now, let's to the questions. What if a daughter or sister of mine was in a pornographic material and I found out by chance? It would still be a surprise, but no indignation. What if she said before she would be in that stuff? Maybe I would do a few questions and would see the material later. In both cases, I would like it or not according to the material itself. And we would not show to all my relatives, friends and acquaintances because not everyone would have the same mentality as we. What if she was a prostitute or stripper and I discovered it by chance, or if she herself told me that she would enter in one of these jobs? I would have concerns about her being with men who do not respect women, which may include my pious neighbor who prohibits his daughter wear lipstick. That's all. Seeing my daughter or my sister in a pornographic magazine or working as prostitute for me would not be the end of the world. It's for you?
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1 "Rita commented about the porn movies she starred. 'I made it of necessity, I needed money. But it was good to see that this was not what I wanted for me.'" ("O gingado de uma ex-chacrete poderosa" - The swinging of a powerful former chacrete [dancer of the television program Cassino do Chacrinha] -, Super Notícia, January 15, 2009. Available at <http://www.otempo.com.br/supernoticia/noticias/?IdNoticia=22238>. Section Variedades.)

¿Y si una hermana o hija tuya estuviese en una revista porno?

Abigail Pereira Aranha
Me gusta la pornografía (la normal, por supuesto), defiendo el sexo sin relación estable (no el sexo ocasional) y yo abogo el matrimonio abierto. Pero ¿y si en una revista, foto o video pornográfico estuviese una hija o hermana mía? ¿Y si me enteré de su trabajo, que ella decía que era otro, era como prostituta o stripper? ¿O si ella misma me dijo que haría un material pornográfico o trabajaría con su cuerpo? Antes de dar mi respuesta, voy a hacer algunas consideraciones. Y voy a fingir que soy una señora de unos 40 años de edad (yo sólo he 18) y nunca vivió en putear.
Algunos hombres les gusta coquetear y materiales "inadecuados para los menores", pero creen que las chicas de sus familias son diferentes. Esto se llama arrogancia. Muchas personas se piensan con más derechos que el resto de la humanidad. Este es el caso del hombre "cazador", que se piensa digno de tener relaciones sexuales con todas las mujeres atractivas que puede encontrar, o de ver sus cuerpos cada vez que puede. Cada vez que lograrlo, es un trofeo para él. Y este mismo "cazador" de las hijas y hermanas de los demás es "protector" de las suyas. Así, cuando la hija o hermana tiene relaciones sexuales con su novio... la cosa es al revés. Este caso es diferente, la chica es de su familia, ella es para el matrimonio. Cualquier conversación de ella con un hombre trae el temor de que la hembra de la casa del "cazador" es la caza de alguien. También tenemos una visión diferente de nuestros padres, de nuestros hermanos y de nuestros hijos, no siempre los vemos como individuos con una individualidad, como el resto de la humanidad.
Algunos hombres les gusta la pornografía, pero dividen las mujeres en las mujeres que tienen valor y las mujeres que no tienen valor, este valor una cantidad contra su vida sexual, y esperan que las de su familia están en el primer grupo. Esto es contradictorio. Si todas las mujeres fuesen liberales, estos hombres protestarían contra la falta de moral y las buenas costumbres. Si todas las mujeres fuesen puritanas, y sus maridos "machistas", ellos apenas verían o hablarían con una mujer que no fuese de su familia o su esposa. Y este "macho" es el "protector" de sus hijas y hermanas.
Y hay hombres que enlazan la relación entre el hombre y la mujer a una relación estable y no les gusta la pornografía. Esto se llama puritanismo. Esto no es exactamente respeto a las mujeres y la disciplina del deseo sexual, que es bueno y también tengo (estoy hablando en serio). Esto es la represión sexual, incluso cuando no alcanza la neurosis. Estos tienen un concepto del sexo que es altamente negativo. ¿No dijo el apóstol Pablo que "sería bueno si un hombre no tocase mujer" (I Corintios 7. 1)? Si el sexo es admitido dentro del matrimonio, es sólo porque la pureza de la institución del matrimonio supera, o se acerca a superar, la suciedad de la práctica y el deseo sexual.
Vamos a suponer que demuestrar le gustar el sexo o una desinhibición relacionada con el cuerpo es la mayor mancha moral de una mujer. Las mujeres que aparecen en la pornografía son la mayoria mujeres "normales" del día a día. Ya ves: no son ninfómanas que fingen ser mujeres "decentes", pero mujeres como la vecina o la secretaria. Muchas hacen estos materiales solamente una vez y por el dinero que se paga. Para citar un ejemplo, Rita Cadillac hizo algunos videos porno por dinero, pero parece que no le gustó enormemente la experiencia.1
Ahora, vamos a las preguntas. ¿Qué pasa si una hija o hermana mía estuviese en un material pornográfico y yo encontro por casualidad? Todavía sería una sorpresa, pero no habría indignación. ¿Y si ella dijo antes que ella estaría en eso material? Tal vez me gustaría hacer un par de preguntas y vería el material más tarde. En ambos casos, podría me gustar o no de acuerdo con el propio material. Y no mostraríamos a todos mis familiares, amigos y conocidos, porque no todo el mundo tendrían la misma mentalidad que tenemos. ¿Y si ella fuese una prostituta o stripper y descubrí por casualidad, o si ella misma me dijo que iba a entrar en uno de estos puestos de trabajo? Yo tendría preocupaciones acerca de ella estar con hombres que no respetan las mujeres, que pueden incluir mi vecino piadoso que prohíbe su hija de utilizar lápiz labial. Eso es todo. Ver a mi hija o mi hermana en una revista pornográfica o trabajando como prostituta para mí no sería el fin del mundo. ¿Es para ti?
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1 "Rita comentó acerca de las películas porno que ella protagonizó. 'Lo hice por necesidad, necesitaba dinero. Pero fue bueno para ver que esto no era lo que yo quería para mí.'" ("O gingado de uma ex-chacrete poderosa" - El balanceo de una poderosa ex chacrete [bailarina del programa de televisión Cassino do Chacrinha] -, Super Notícia, 15 de enero de 2009. Disponible en <http://www.otempo.com.br/supernoticia/noticias/?IdNoticia=22238>. Sección Variedades.)

martedì 30 giugno 2009

El sexo y la amistad

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Sex and friendship

Abigail Pereira Aranha
The lack of a commitment to sexual exclusivity between a man and a woman does not exclude other commitments, such as mutual respect and companionship. Here I will not approach casual sex, which can really have the attitude "use and throw away". Only the man-woman friendship with sex.
Marriage is a social and legal link before being a relationship of respect. Proof of this is domestic violence. Until not long ago, marriages were imposed by parents (this still happens in some delayed parts of the world). In this context, or when the spouses chosen one another by the sense of obligation to marry, spouses generally do not have a relationship of friendship or intimacy, they have a relationship of mutual censorship and possessiveness.
For many, seem incompatible friendship and sex. In fact, we learn to link sex to marriage, then is difficult for some to see sex outside of marriage as normal. But the link between sex and marriage is not mandatory. It's just social and religious control rules that tell us it is. So, it's possible a man and a woman to have a sexual relationship with no prospect of marriage and yet to have esteem for each other. I've had some men friends who were ashamed to look at me as a woman, until I touched the boys on the wall. I touched, I kissed by force and I took the tool. And after that, the friendship was better, hehehehe.
Some say that having sex without marriage commitment or without marriage is treating the other as an object of pleasure. Not necessarily. They are frequent violence and selfishness in marital lives. So, marriage is not synonymous with respect. Nor the lack of wedding excludes respect. Oh, and in my adventures with friends, I made one thing that one of them said to a prostitute and she said she would not have courage: make doggystyle on the couch for anal sex with four friends one... after another. The next day, one of them, who was my classmate, insisted to pay for my lunch at recess in the school and I accepted.
The Puritans may talk about sex outside of marriage as a source of disease. By this reasoning, venereal disease has nothing to do with microorganisms, but with a divine judgment of a god who has trouble with sex, as well as natural disasters are the result of divine wrath. More intense sexual life brings greater risk of disease such as more car using increases the risk of accident.
Some say that sex within marriage has the highest quality there is. It never comes from a person who knows something about sexual life beyond married life. At least not a person who talks about it honestly.
Who is against sex outside of marriage is only because of an education given by religion. The fires of Hell do not let those who believe in it think logically and clearly.
Now, let's go to the benefits of a relationship sex-and-friendship. For beginning, sex tends to be of good quality. Imagine you having sex with a person who have in mind that you have an obligation to have sex with her only. It's what many married people think, that is why exist many marriages with horrible sex once a week or less. In addition, it will be because of the good quality that both will continue the sexual involvement, while many married people invest in the sexual life of unhappy marriages and in the unhappy marriages as a whole just to remain married. In addition, both do not bind to one another, so they can love more one another.
Ah, if there is friendship as feeling, it may be for something of quality that one sees on the other. If it happens sex, the relationship is sex plus friendship. I am not considering those cases, really common, in which the man pretends to be friend to have sex with the woman, because so is sex without friendship.
For many, sex is a thing full of guilt and impurity, only being acceptable little more than daddy-mommy within marriage. From there, the difficulty for some to think of a man and a woman who love each other having sex.
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